SIGMS YOU ARE THE SIDE CHICK
SIGNS YOU ARE THE SIDECHICK intro: Life is just beautiful, isn't it? Majority of women you meet are in a relationship yet, majority of men are single. And I always thought the number of women to men were a lot. Or it is a lie? Even the married ones are either single or "wish they met you before they married." The age old folk. We get into relationships for numerous reasons, after we get in, there are two things involved, you are either the only one or there is someone else in the scene. If you are the only one, you are safe, but if there is another person, there are two things involved. You are either the main or the side chick. If you are the main.. You get the drift I hope? so how do you know whether you are the main or the side chick? 1=>never does he open up much; a sidechick need not know too much details about you. After all, you want to keep her at bay. Give her information to make her feel as if she knows you, but, he does not go deeper to give too much away. If is walls go up whenever you try to get him emotional, he is trying to prevent that beyond side play attachment. 2=> He never sleeps over; Some people in the male species like me for example really love my bed. But, not matter how much you love your bed, when you are really into someone, you will not mind sacrificing sleeping over. Hell, at times you feel so comfortable in their bed it becomes like your own. However, if she is a side piece, psychologically your brain is not ready to accept that comfortability, let alone your body. 3=>He hardly pick your calls; Not withstanding the fact that some people generally do not pick calls or a just not phone people, when is their partners, they atleast pick it 1/2 of the time mostly. The comedic excuse of low battery, bad reception etc is hardly talked about. 4=> HORNY HOURS; the times he texts you are usually horny hours or late at night. Asking to come over or hangout. Unless you are ok being the booty call, I need not dive any deeper into this for you to conclude. Other points like meeting his friends I left out, because now, men have mastered the act of making side chicks feel like main chicks to the point that the friends will make it worse. The popular "our wife" quote can simply destroy your conclusion. All the same, do not take just one point and conclude you are the side chick. Atleast 4 out 5 combined or 3 out of 5, depending on how strong you see it.