HOW TO GET HIM TO PROPOSE IN 15 DAYS
if after the following he shows no signs oR willingNESS to propose, start killing the idea of getting proposed to and join the long "fuck buddy with strings" queue. You are not paranoid, after all the years or month of being together, after all the different positions he has put you and made you tap out. After all the smiles and joy he has put your face and heart, it is only natural the next best thing he can do is to lock you down. How do you get him to bend the knee in 15 days?? 1- NO MORE FEAR : help remove any fear he has concerning taking the next step. FEAR with regards to you saying No when he proposes, No man likes his ego bruised. Unless the friendship you both have is really strong. Also, fear of the idea of marriage is a big thing to most guys. Find the right way to make him feel ok about it. 2-TIME FRAME; try mentioning a timeframe of a period within which you will love to be married. A MAN that really wants to marry you will start worrying about that time frame, because he truly cares and wants to be with you. 3- LIVING TOGETHER: Within the next 15 days, You are going to mess up with his mind some more. Convince him you are the perfect room mate. But make sure you do things you love to do. Do not clean up after him if you don't think you can continue doing it when you finally move in together. Make him feel as though you are the good side of his mum, the fun side of his best friend and the naughty side of his crush. If it feels like too much work, forget and stay in the relationship the way it is. No one is forcing you to get him to marry you, Na your own wahala. 4- MARRIED FRIENDS: hangout with him and your married friends. See how he is with you after subsequent hangouts. The happier he gets after these hangouts, the more His thoughts leans towards his proposal. Make sure those friends are those with happy marriages though, else you will just be digging your own grave. 5- FINANCE - Give him hints about your budget, the kind of wedding you want etc. (But do not over talk about weddings. At a point it is almost near annoying.)Make sure is within his finances, you are trying to get married not punch a hole in his accounts. Also, be surely financially he is sound enough to cater for the house when you can't. Do not be so desperate to wear that ring that you loose track of the very important things in life. 6- OPTIONS: make him feel as though you have options. Sometimes that fear of losing you will cause him to seal it quick before another person takes you. Be sure to no over do it tho and also, make sure you know your man well enough as the very jealous type to pull this off. The not too jealous kind will rather prefer an assurance that there's no one else but him than other wise. 7- Often than not, women make their entire joy be based on their men. Sometimes men love to see that even without them their women can be happy too. That she is a bit independent but still leans on him a little. I know is complicated, but what in life is not. It enables them see you in a different light. A type of vulnerability that is good for you and your relationship.