PUBLIC DISPLAY OF AFFECTION
My friend Melanie and I were just in an argument last night over this topic that made me feel like putting this down. She said “Ghanaian guys are not romantic” why because when in public we do not show our romantic nature to our women enough. No kissing, tickling, touching or even playing with our women. Just plane old lay down let’s fuck or romance only in the bedroom. BEFORE WE CONTINUE Do you feel comfortable when you see couples kissing or making out in public? (A) yes (B) No (C) it is very cute (D) hmmm Today we discuss PUBLIC DISPLAY OF AFFECTION (PDA FOR SHORT) Simply put, it is “playing lovi lovi” with your partner. It is being touchy in physical sense either overly playful or sensual but between couples in a public setting. We leave in a society where people are easily judged, so although engaging in PDA could be really fun for your relationship, first thing to consider is “ how will your grandparents act if they saw you doing this!” With that as a guide, let’s dive into the world of PDA. Being affectionate in public can be cute and so can it make it uncomfortable experience for people around you. You want them to be saying Awww not Ewww. Simple two (2) vowels yet strong differences. The following rules should help you, should Incase you decide to indulge in PDA kissing: a kiss on the forehead, on the check, can be passionate to the lips but stay away from tongue play. A touch on the shoulder, holding hands, hugging them from behind, little perky nibbles on different parts of their bodies that’s sound. Do not do too much. Sucking and licking: no sucking your partners thumb, licking their ears or neck in public. Instead you can breathe down their neck and maybe bite on them gently in a cute way and pass. Incase you feel like being in a teasing motion Always remember; when it is done right, it is very cute, but when overly done ✅ you draw bad vibes towards you. If your man is not doing it and you want him to, talk about it with him. Else, wait for the tricks in getting him to do PDA.